Q: "I try to get my girls (9 and 11) to play outside more, but they're addicted to their keyboard, mobile phones and computer games. How can I wean them off technology? I wish I'd never bought the things!"
A: "Ah, technology - it's a blessing and a curse! Resist the urge to ban your girls altogether, though. Don't make computer games a 'treat' either - this can be counter-productive since, by default, that makes every other activity a 'chore'. Instead, work to get more balance in their spare time. Buy or borrow a few outdoor games - few children can bear to look at a ball and hoop without having a go at shooting! If they're reluctant at first, introduce them to outdoor play gradually, perhaps by letting them take their portable video games outside."